Leila Bendimered

Integrated Attachment Theory Coach

Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certified

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With two Master's degrees—one in Translation and another in International Relations—I built a fulfilling career as a translator for prestigious international organizations, including the European Commission, the United Nations, and the IAEA. Language has always been my bridge to understanding and connection. But along the way, my passion for human relationships led me toward an unexpected and transformative journey: personal development. I deepened my knowledge by earning certifications in Neotantric Coaching (VITA™), focusing on sexuality, self-love, and relationships, as well as Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT™), a methodology rooted in cognitive and behavioural neuroscience. This unique blend of training allows me to offer powerful insights into the dynamics of connection, intimacy, and personal growth. Beyond coaching, I pursue my own creative dreams—writing fiction novels and short stories that explore the complexities of human experience. The very tools I teach have been instrumental in helping me embrace my personal desires, heal relationship patterns, and move toward a life of deeper fulfilment. Since 2020, I’ve had the privilege of coaching hundreds of individuals and leading group sessions—both online and in person—helping people cultivate secure relationships, self-acceptance, and the confidence to create the life they truly desire. If you're ready to embark on this journey, I’d love to support you.

Attachment TheoryBody Image IssuesBurn OutCareer CounselingCoachingCodependencyContemplativeCouples CounselingDivorceFamily SystemsInterpersonalMen’s IssuesNonviolent CommunicationPersonal GrowthPolyamorous and Open RelationshipsRelationalRelationship / Marriage IssuesSelf-EsteemSexual AbuseSexual AddictionSexual ProblemsSpiritualityWomen’s Issues

I apply Integrated Attachment Theory™, as developed by Thais Gibson, to help my clients understand how their attachment style influence their relationships and shape their experiences. Together, we explore the factors that contribute to insecure behaviours and thoughts (limiting beliefs, personal needs, emotional regulation, personal boundaries, communication style, shadow projections and vulnerability). Through a structured approach that emphasizes the role of the subconscious mind in shaping each of these elements, I guide my clients toward achieving security and confidence in every aspect of their lives—relationships, self-confidence, career, health, finances, etc. This process empowers them to build healthy habits, foster stable relationships, and realize their deepest desires. This work is for you if: you’ve recently experienced a painful breakup and want to use this time to rebuild your life and rediscover yourself; you find yourself trapped in unhealthy relationship patterns that bring you distress; you’re eager to start a new project (creative, business, etc.) but feel held back by self-criticism and low self-confidence; you want to take back control of your health and create a lifestyle that feels aligned with your values. I meet three times per month with my clients, for one hour, and I give them exercises to do between our sessions. Depending on what they want to work on and what we discover about them, we usually meet for about 4 to 7 months.

I have a Master's degree in Translation (French, Spanish and English) and a Master's degree in International Relations. I have worked for over 10 year for various international organizations (EU, UN, IAEA) in New York, Brussels and Vienna. I write works of fiction and hope to soon become a published writer. I am certified as a VITA™ Coach. The VITA™ Method (the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach) is a transformational process to heal and awaken your deepest wisdom using holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement that blend modern neurobiology, coaching, and ancient teachings of Tantra, Taoism, and sacred sexuality. I am also certified as a IAT™ Coach. Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT) is a framework that helps people understand attachment styles and heal relationship wounds, emphasizing the role of the subconscious mind in attachment patterns.

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Zoom Hove Brighton